S. K. Siddiqui and Tasneem
Vali discuss the Islamic guidelines of Satar.
In
December, 2001, Nicholas Kristof reported in the New York Times that although
Afghan women were no longer required to wear the Burqa, they did so anyway. In
his view, only the subjugated and backward women would choose to cover
themselves. Islamic law, however, assigns it moral, social and legal dimensions.
It is of utmost importance to dress correctly, because your dress is a
reflection of yourself.
It is
human nature to make even the simplest instruction complicated; the same has
happened with Allah's I commandment, especially regarding a Muslim woman’s
dress. If we study the fundamentals of what Allah (swt) has commanded, there are
very few rules to remember - they are clearly defined in the Quran.
"Tell the
believing men to lower their gaze, and protect their private parts. That is
purer for them. Verily, Allah’s All-Aware of what they do. And tell the
believing women to lower their gaze, and protect their private parts and not to
show off their adornment except only that which is apparent, and to draw their
veils all over Juyubihinna (i.e. their bodies, faces, necks and bosoms, etc.)
and not to reveal their adornment except to their husbands, their fathers, their
husband's fathers, their sons, their husband's sons, their brothers or their
brother's sons, or their sister's sons, or their (Muslim) women (i.e. their
sisters in Islam), or the (female) slaves whom their right hands possess, or old
male servants who lack vigour, or small children who have no sense of the shame
of sex. And let them not stamp their feet so as to reveal what they hide of
their adornment. And all of you beg Allah to forgive you all, O believers, that
you may be successful." (An-Nur 24: 30-31)
1. Extent of
Covering.
The dress of Muslim men must cover the area from the navel to the knee, while
women should cover their entire body, except for the face and hands. The area
that must not be uncovered in the presence of any person, except the spouse, is
called Satar. A
Muslim woman cannot exhibit her beauty and adornment, except for "that which
must ordinarily appear thereof". This prohibition could include natural
beauty and acquired
adornment (jewellery, clothes, etc.).
2. Looseness. The dress must not be tightly
fitted.
3. Thickness. The clothes should not be
transparent, so that the colour of skin or the shape of the body is
apparent.
4. Overall
Appearance.
It should not attract undue attention.
In
addition to the above clear requirements, there are some minor
considerations:
1. The
dress should not be similar to what the opposite sex wears. Ibn Abbas (rta)
narrated that the Prophet (sa) cursed the men who act like women, and the women
who act like men. (Bukhari)
2. The
dress of a Muslim must not imitate/emulate that of another nation. Muslims have
their distinct identity and must 'wear the label' so to say. Al-Qurtubi says:
"Women in those days used to cover their heads with the Khimaar, throwing its
ends on their backs. This left the neck and the upper part of the chest bare,
along with the ears, in the manner of the Christians. Then Allah (swt) commanded
them to cover those parts with the Khimaar."
3. It
should not be a dress of fame, pride and vanity. "Whoever wears a dress of fame
in this world; Allah will clothe him with a dress of humiliation in the day of
resurrection, and then set it afire." (Al-Albani) At the same time, it is
imperative to wear clothes that are befitting your socio-economical status - in
other words, it is not right to wear rags to appear more pious.
4. The
dress must be clean, reflecting one's concern for Taharah.
The
verses in Surah An-Nur inform us about special relations known as Mahrams. These
are the people in front of whom a woman may appear with her head uncovered, but
the rest of her still needs to be covered. The spouse is a special case, in
front of whom the other party may appear uncovered to any degree.
The basic
code to follow is practicing what you preach. Allah (swt) says: "Most hateful it
is with Allah that you say that which you do not do." (As-Saff 61:3)
The rule
never to break is that of decency. In every culture, the norms of decency vary,
for instance, in the west, exposing your legs is not considered indecent, and in
India, where wearing a Saree is common, exposing the midriff is acceptable.
However,
as Muslims, we must interpret everything in the light of the Quran and Sunnah;
thus, our dress and actions must follow the aforementioned conventions.
Even
though Muslims might be properly covered physically, their eyes must remain open
to the world. They may come across things which are Haram for them to see - they
should avoid looking at them. This might include lowering the gaze when seeing a
person who does not follow the Islamic dress code, exercising caution when
watching TV, avoiding looking at billboards and sticking to guidelines of
modesty in social interaction with the opposite sex.
Those of
us armed with western education 'know' that it is rude not to keep eye contact
with people when addressing them. However, Islam teaches that believing men and
women lower their gaze to protect themselves. We need to unlearn these alien
theories.
In
addition to this, we should be aware that even though most of these rules apply
post puberty, we have a responsibility to create awareness in our children about
their bodies as soon as they become conscious of their clothing or actions.
Children should be made aware that wearing certain types of clothes or acting in
a certain way in front of the opposite sex is unacceptable.
Allah
(swt) has given us simple and clear guidelines. It is our responsibility to
follow them as closely as we can. We should avoid the trap of such excuses as -
"If I cover my face, the other person will not understand what I say." Do you
see a person's lips move, when you talk on the phone? A nun, who covers herself,
is dedicated to God, but a Muslim woman who chooses to do the same, is viewed as
oppressed and down trodden.
Break the
shackles of your education - think with your heart's eye! Let Allah (swt) be
your sole guide.
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